In The Beginning……..(Sept
20)
I am writing this sitting in my own little personal balcony
with my room in the Hostel Pasado el Maple where I stayed last night and will
stay tonight. Tomorrow I will go to my
host family -my home for the next year.
The hostel is quite nice.. and thankfully had coffee this morning. The coffee wasn’t that great but the caffeine
was awesome! (being amongst the 20 year olds I am hearing the word “awesome” a
lot)
Yesterday went surprisingly well… all flights on time.. all
things good. It was a long day but
really not so bad. I did arrive last
night extremely tired due to the short night preceding as I finished up packing
quite late. I am not quite sure how this
all began and I am shocked that I actually got on the plane and got here
And more Beginnings ( Sept 24 -4 days later)
It is now Sunday, four days later , and this is my first
free day. I have had some time in the
evenings but due to lots of things (moving twice, altitude, being a deer in the
headlights when it comes to language and transportation, and spending a lot of
time in a very high level of noise in the orientation classroom) when I get home at night I just crash – but really
I just slither down as I don’t really have the wherewithal for a full level
crash. The word crash just sounds SOOOOO energetic.
This is so much like being a high school freshman
again. I have all new shoes. I have all new technology-though as a high school
freshman new technology meant a new straight edge, compass, and slide rule. And
on my first day of orientation my Host “Mom” walked me to school. Something I will be eternally grateful for.
So much has happened but I will give short summary of
things. I suspect I may get some of the
details wrong as I don’t understand Spanish at all – and when am in altitude
spacyness there is not a language anywhere I understand.
My Host Family.
All of us are required to stay with a host family for the first half of the
year. I am really happy with my
placement. I am living with a woman,
Sandra, who is (or was) an economist and her 19 year daughter (as of Friday)
Camille.. With me are two other World
Teach volunteers – a married couple and the only other volunteers over 30
(perhaps over 25). What I had wished for
in my home was wifi, showers with at least warm water, accommodating family
food wise, a place to work/read outside and a park nearby (though in Quito it
seems there is always a park nearby). I
got all of this and so much more. I just
flat out like Sandra…and Camille is such a unique combination of brains,
maturity and child-like ebullience I just enjoy watching her even when I can’t
understand a thing going on. Sandra sadly tells me that she loves to cook too
much and her happy times are those in a kitchen. I am not quite sure why this makes her sad
but as I told her it certainly works for me!
And another happy happening is that Sandra is from the coast of Ecuador
-where the culture and the food is quite different. She loves cooking the
coastal dishes so I am getting an opportunity to learn about two types of
Ecuadorian types of food. So far there have
been a lot of dishes with mashed green plantains. The only real problem is that I want to try
everything I see that is new and so find myself breaking my own rules about
food.
Last night was Camille’s 19th birthday party. Sandra
cooked and cooked and cooked. There was guacamole, snacks, birthday cake, pork
roast, mashed potatoes, etc. All the
family came. All the furniture was out
of the living room except chairs along the walls and it is a fairly small living
room by American standards. There were
balloons, food, etc. In the center of the living room the young danced. There
was some dancing but not much by older folk.
In the chairs were the kids, the grandmothers, aunts, uncles watching
the dancing and talking. People also
gathered in the kitchen. I tried to take
some pictures as I was so struck by the comfort of the teenagers in dancing in
front of their mothers, aunts and the comfort of the young kids in running
around the dance circle. It was a very easy flow between ages and generations. It
is my understanding that this is part of Ecuadorian culture – family is supreme
and people live with their parents until they marry regardless of profession
and income.
To demonstrate my fatigue – 12 -15 19 yrs+ people dancing to
loud music 12 feet from my room did nothing to keep me awake.
Quito.
Having loved Quito in 2014 – I was assuming
this would happen again. However, 3
years is a long time in technology, development, etc. and I had two fears. The first was that the majority of people walking down the street
would be staring at cell phones (which I
feel has really altered the experience of walking NYC) , and secondly -that
there would be a significant number of box
stores, fast food chains, etc. But my
fears were unrealized. While of course
there are cell phones around and you will always be seeing people using them
-it seems to be on a “I need to do this” as opposed to interrupting or
preventing face-to face interactions because
perhaps one got a text in the last 10
minutes. So generally, on the bus and on the street people are engaged with
their surroundings as opposed to the cloud.
(I recognize there is a bit of hypocrisy on my part as I am clinging to
my phone not being able to imagine a world without whatsapp, podcasts, and
google maps at my 24/7 fingertips). While
I have seen a KFC and a Macdonald’s- and I am sure I will see more - for the most part Quito is a collection of small
stores and shops. While there are some big shops, plazas, big grocery stores –
they appear local in nature. One of the
really lovely aspects of life here is that every neighborhood has an assortment
of small shops, cafes, etc. And I have
spent most, if not all, of my time in what is referred to as Gringolandia so I
am assuming I am in the most American like shopping district. So it appears I have finally escaped the Walmart,
Walgreens, Costco, Applebees, so forth and so on –dominated world.
The real question is whether I will continue to see being limited to
small shops as wonderful a few months from now as I am quick to embrace luxuries and the easy life.
My placement/teaching
here. Right now I am going through a
2.5 week orientation. I am finding it
difficult as I always find sitting in a class room for a day difficult. However,
I am grateful that it is a room with windows that open. I always find it almost impossible to go
through a day of presentations in a room with no windows. Soon we will be learning
about lesson planning, etc. There are 38
of us, and I think only three of us are not in our 20’s. The topics for orientation are generally
those I have had at least annually in my
academic career – diversity, engaged learning, critical thinking etc. So while all of these experience is about me
learning new things… the first few weeks of work are quite familiar to me. But
all then we will have a task to do that leaves me baffled and I am
scrambling. I still am confused about
cell phones and international lines.
Sometime in October I will begin teaching at CEC (https://www.cec-epn.edu.ec/).
We do not yet know our teaching
schedule. What is striking fear in my
heart right now is that one or some of us will have 7 a.m. classes. I guess I have survived worse. I do know that I will have about two classes
of 20 and that it is college level.
However, depending on the time of the class some high school students
may attend. But it will be adults, and we can assume people who are taking the
class because they want to. The college has our resumes and is matching people
to classes right now.
SO I am ending this first blog post.
It is close to 2 on my first full day off since I got here so I
am eager to do nothing. I was worried as I only brought one book to read but I
am finding it challenging to get through 3-4 pages a night…. And I am really
engaged in the book. (A re-read of The Dispossed). The main character is adjusting to a new
PLANET ..so perhaps the idea of that just knocks me out as I am only dealing with a new country.
Congratulations Victoria!! You made the big step and are living what you have dreamt of. I think you are "awesome"! I'm excited to read more in the future.
ReplyDeleteVictoria - How exciting? How did this happen? Could you talk a little more about the organization and what exactly you will be teaching? I'm retiring in January - maybe I will come visit you! julie
ReplyDeleteVictoria - All of us in interfaith book club are living this with you! Please let us know what its like on the faiths-front, too. We're so proud of you for "stretching" yourself . . . so you can help others. And, thanks for taking the time to document the experience in detail. It feels like we're there. Joel
ReplyDeleteVictoria, I am so looking forward to reading about your continuing adventure with this - thank you for sharing it!
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